How many times do we hear it?
“Sure, after I trained him to be the perfect boyfriend, he breaks up with me and goes to be perfect for someone else.?
Has this happened to you?
We can learn a lot from our short term relationships. We bump and
bruise each other like bumper cars in an old time amusement park. We
fight, argue, push our weight around or we withdraw, pout and
manipulate.
Bless my man’s heart! He brings me flowers, after nearly 4 years together.
You know that special kind of flowers?.the for-no-reason flowers.
I was on the phone (happens a lot) and he came home after golf
yesterday with three pink roses in a bud vase. Not just a bouquet from
the store. No, he took time and picked something for me.
I can’t help but reflect on how cool that is. I choose to realize
how happy he makes me feel at times. Knowing he took time to think of
me while he was away from me builds my confidence in my ability to
strengthen our connection by thinking about it in a consciously
positive way.
